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  1. Great story and wonderful perspective on not letting the church control you after you are done with it. Listened to Part 1 via audio and thought I related to so much of what you said. Then watched Part 2 on 的YouTube, saw the KRCL hoodie, and realized we may 有 even more in common than I realized. 🙂

  2. 槊’s insight and take on life is fierce and refreshing. As someone who identifies as an agnostic, his cognitive flexibility is a model that I would like to move towards. 槊, you are an amazing humble human being. I wish you a life of ‘选择自己的冒险’反映您价值观的故事。

  3. 噢,我希望我能那样放松!我研究并找到了离开的理由,所以当摩门教徒问我为什么离开时,我觉得自己可以为自己辩护。我的不快乐对他们或我来说显然是不够的。我爱你说他们可以’t validate you. I really 需要ed to hear that. I guess I’我仍然在跳动自己,我做不到’不要让教会为我工作。呸!很棒的采访。

  4. Wow! Ive been a lifelong Utah fan and I never thought Id see a 摩门教徒的故事podcast with 槊 Allred . I had no idea about 槊s story other than my one-sided view as a young fan. I 有 a different take on his time at the U than I did before.

    爱他对信仰,成长等方面的看法。他诚实和直率的评论令人耳目一新。感谢分享!

    此外,我们也分享您对蒙大拿州小镇的热爱!

  5. 令人惊叹的采访和您的Tedx谈话真的打动了我。我的丈夫三月份离开教堂。我们住在法国,不要’不认识其他离开教堂的人。当我决定离开教堂时,我生命中的某个时刻我真的无法’不管教会是否真实,我只是知道这让我很痛苦,而我所有怀疑自己的疑问的努力都没有帮助我。我只是想对自己忠实,再次感到真实。我一直在努力不让自己陷入新盒子里,’并非易事,但您的采访确实很有帮助。也喜欢观察自己说话方式的方式,避免使用诸如‘need’ and ‘have’ that is something I am trying to work on as well. I went to a workshop in Germany once where a lady spoke about words in German that people use everyday that are reminiscent of the wars in Germany and that we 需要 to stop using so that we can change our outlook on life. The way we choose to express ourselves is so important for our own mental and spiritual health. Can’等不及看接下来要写什么书!
    Also thanks 约翰 for your time helping people like us, it means the world to me!!

  6. 槊 your story and that of your family is truly amazing. I’我不是篮球迷,但您的学习自我接纳的故事引起了所有人的共鸣。

  7. 如此令人印象深刻的年轻人真是太棒了。我赞扬他对自己情况的坦率分析,以及对他的态度的明智评估。‘polygamy’在他的一生中都对他的思想产生了影响。我喜欢看TEDx的演讲,并将与尽可能多的LDS家庭成员分享该链接。
    约翰…。这种类型的采访简直太棒了,我不知道’t think that you will ever know how meaningful all of your work on 摩门教徒的故事is to many who 有 walked the complex and never ending journey out of the LDS church.

  8. 观看如此有趣的采访!这个年轻人将通过他的演讲启发许多人。他有分享的天赋。

    我爱他没有’t 需要 to do the mental gymnastics to stay in the church. He didn’甚至没有提出错误的学说或我们大多数人离开的所有原因。对他来说,不快乐就足够了。真令人耳目一新。

    我最喜欢的播客之一!

  9. I really enjoyed the interview. 槊 has some real insight and wisdom to share. I dig his attitude about things. Great voice too. If his TedTalk is any indication, I think he has a bright future in public speaking.

    约翰, I think you were really enjoying branching out a bit and interviewing outside of the mormon wheelhouse –我可以看到您对他的篮球经历感到很好奇,我喜欢这些问题。

    There is one little thing that may 有 slipped through the cracks. 槊 almost declared himself a prophet. Whoa!

  10. 很棒的采访。

    很有意思。

    对保持情绪健康的深刻见解。

    我不’不知道这是否是我的想象力,但他的表情和言语举止似乎与Labron相同’s

  11. 槊,
    感谢您的采访。这是我非常喜欢的摩门教徒故事访谈,因为它真的很受欢迎。我的大儿子患有非常严重的强迫症(电灯开关,门关闭,起搏,触碰强迫症),这使他成为了一个精湛的运动员,但有些奇怪,他有一个教练和一个教练对他如此虐待。当我们把他从球队中撤下时(在赛季结束之前,人们更加生气),我们对他抱有很多垃圾,不让他学会变强硬,等等。’相信人们认为情感虐待是可以的。现在,我们12岁的儿子讨厌他最喜欢的打发时间,而且像您一样,教练给了他一个令人难以置信的障碍,以至于每当他收到惊慌失措的球时,他都会感到沮丧。我丈夫现在教他(他’s 14),他又开心又笑了,喜欢玩!它’s a fun team, a safe place, super positive and they are a talented team too. So you can 有 a good team without “tough love”.
    对我来说,另一个让我感到不适的地方是我的第二个儿子患有ADP(听觉处理障碍),他的耳朵可以听见,但大脑可以听见。’t。您所说的关于在球场上下象棋的很多事使我想起了我的儿子。他迷失于教练的语言,但运用自己的视觉技巧成为一名出色的运动员。有时他的队友嘲笑他,以为他’愚蠢,但后来他的演奏最终使他们闭嘴。
    我两个孩子今晚都将在睡前听这次面试。
    感谢您成为如此出色的榜样。也感谢您的细微差别和真实性。

  12. 槊, bar none this has been my favorite 摩门教徒的故事Interview.
    如果有人想更多地了解其他激烈的宗教经历以及Sc亵行为(sp?)可能导致的后果,(对生命的负面影响)请收听播客“心理疾病欢乐时光”; Snap Judgment Glen Washington(#296)的执行制片人采访,他在一个宗教信仰中长大。
    槊 you started to talk about something (it was a bit tangential so you redirected yourself) that i find fascinating; the idea that in Mormonism as we go along and live the orthodox Mormon model we eventually all start acting very similarly and our personalities seem to meld together and we sort of all become the same person. This has really bothered me the longer I go as a former member. As a Physician seeing patients all day (30 or so in a day) in the Wasatch Front area I kind of 有 a intimate front row seat to this phenomenon. Maybe all this goes without saying but wow what a tragedy. I see my own parents who are in there early seventies unable to really form relationships with anyone who isn’t海峡箭头摩门教徒。如果”因此要完美”意味着我们所有人都变得完全谦虚,顺从,外向,专注,精神…………etc. ect…我们最终不会成为同一个人吗?如果不是今生,那么在下一次,当我们真正地“Perfect”.
    也许那个’为什么摩门教徒经常被视为“milk Toasty” by the larger world. I 有 has to relearn how to socialize in the real world since leaving. Its hard but so beautiful once I was able to fully let go.
    thanks for bringing this up I 有 never heard anyone really put it the way you did and it resonated.
    很好!我等不及要看你的TED演讲

  13. 你相信一妻多夫吗?一世’我会完全嫁给你’m married!! Lol…kidding. Though your buttery deep voice would be so awesome in radio or as a commentator. So impressed with you 槊 and your gritty perseverance in all aspects of your life!

  14. Thank you for sharing your remarkable story. It was inspiring. You reminded of the Hemingway quote “The world breaks everyone, and afterward, some are stronger in the broken places.” I hope you will continue to 有 the opportunity to share you insights.

  15. 哦,天哪..以前是普通摩门教徒…和聋哑,我很认同你…以及为什么犹他州成为一个至少会让您感觉与众不同的州。感谢您在这么多级别上分享。我弹奏了四种乐器,并在很小的时候就与家人一起唱歌…但是麻疹使我每年都失去听力。有时我们是看不见的..但是我们听到鼓声很特别。你的特色是高超和才华。上帝祝福你…不管那是什么上帝

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